It’s all about ATTITUDE!

Exista femei care te hipnotizează prin simpla prezenta. Gandeste-te putin la prietena aia din grupul vostru care e mereu in centrul atentiei, cea care are intotdeauna parul aranjat, machiajul intact si zambetul pe buze, care e curtata de toti barbatii si invidiata in secret de toate femeile.

In metrou, pe strada, in parc, in club sau la cafeneaua preferata… astfel de femei sunt peste tot! Sunt cele dupa care intorci capul pe strada, sau cele pe care le urmaresti pe Facebook cum isi etaleaza corprurile perfecte, vacantele perfecte si vietile perfecte…

Daca te uiti atent la ele, vei observa ca majoritatea nu sunt inzestrate cu o frumusete debordanta, dar toate, absolute toate sunt femei cu ATITUDINE!

Aceste femei stiu sa se faca remarcate pentru ca isi cunosc potentialul. Stiu sa se puna in valoare si stiu sa se faca placute.

 

Dress: PNK Casual, Shoes: Zara

Cenusareaso, stiu ce gandesti… ca tu nu vei putea fi niciodata ca ele! Ca majoritatea sunt femei cu bani, intretinute, care traiesc doar pentru a fi frumoase… Si totusi nu sunt toate asa! Exista femei de cariera care isi platesc vizitele la salon prin multe ore suplimentare, femei de afaceri care isi rasplatesc succesul unui contract printr-o geanta Fendi, dar si femei care si-au dat ultimii bani pe “cea mai frumoasa pereche de pantofi din lume”. Cu toate astea, succesul lor nu vine din investitiile facute ci… din ATITUDINE!

Nici macar o geanta Fendi nu te va salva, daca tu mergi pe strada cu capul plecat si nici cele mai frumose tocuri din lume nu te vor “ridica”, daca tu te desconsideri. Pentru ca toate astea sunt doar accesorii, si femeile alea pe care le admiri stiu asta, stiu ca ele investesc in accesorii pe care le poarta cu ATITUDINE!

Asa ca daca vrei sa schimbi ceva la tine, incepe cu ATITUDINEA! In primul rand fata de tine, apoi fata de cei din jur!

Despre cum sa-ti descoperi frumusetea interioara si cum sa-ti accepti defectele am discutat deja…acum e timpul ca si ceilalti sa vada cat esti tu de minunata! Incepe prin a accepta complimentele. Atunci cand cineva iti admira tinuta, renunta la scuzele de genul “ rochia asta veche…o aveam prin dulap de secole si am scos-o de la naftalina…”. Un simplu “multumesc, si mie imi place” e de ajuns! ! Tu ti-ai ales tinuta, te-ai uitat in oglinda inainte de a iesi din casa, asuma-ti alegerea! Nu e nimic rau in a fi multumita de tine, nu vei fi considerata nici ingamfata si nici fitoasa daca accepti un compliment.

Succesul tau in viata incepe si se termina cu atitudinea pe care o ai. Daca iti doresti sa ai succes, trebuie sa incepi sa te gandeşti la tine insuţi ca la o persoană de success si rezultatele nu vor intarzia sa apara.

Cenusareaso, drumul pe podium e greu dar nu imposibil. Inarmeaza-te cu atitudinea potrivita si nu uita de cel mai de pret accesoriu: zambetul!

Cu drag,Anca

(EN) Some women just hypnotize you with their presence. Think about that friend in your group who is always the center of attention, who always has the most beautiful hair, the intact makeup and the perfect smile on her face, who is courted by all men and secretly envied by all women.

In the subway, on the street, in the park, in the club or café … these women are everywhere! These are the women you head back on the street for, or the ones that you are following on Facebook for their perfect bodies, perfect vacations and perfect lives…

If you look at them closely, you will notice that most are not endowed with exuberant beauty, but what they all have is ATTITUDE!

These women know how to get noticed because they know their potential. They know how to show their value and know how to be an enjoyable company.

Cinderella, I know what you’re thinking … you’ll never be like them! Most of these women are trophy wives, living just to be beautiful… Still not all of them! There are also career women who pay the visits to the salon through overtime at the office, business women who reward the success of a contract with a Fendi bag, and women who gave their last money on “the most beautiful pair of shoes in the world”. However, their success does not come from the investments they made but from their ATTITUDE!

A Fendi handbag will not save you, if you walk down the street with your head bowed, nor the most beautiful heels in the world will “lift” you if you’re feeling down. Those women you admire know that all these accessories they are investing in are nothing, if they don’t wear them with attitude!

So if you want to change something, start with your ATTITUDE, first towards you, and then towards those around you!

We already discussed how to discover your inner beauty and how to accept your flaws… now it’s time for others to see how wonderful you are!

Begin by accepting compliments. When someone admires your outfit, give up excuses like “this old dress … I had that in my wardrobe for centuries”. A simple “thank you, I like it too” is enough! You have chosen your outfit, you looked in the mirror before leaving the house, own your choice! There’s nothing wrong with being happy with yourself, you will not be considered presumptuous or infatuated if you accept a compliment.

Your success in life begins and ends with the attitude that you have. If you want to be successful, you must begin to think of yourself as a successful person and the results will come.

Cinderella, life on the runway is difficult but not impossible. Arm yourself with the right attitude and do not forget the most important accessory: your smile!

Love,

Anca

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